My respect for grave diggers has gone up tremendously. I'm not talking about the guys who run backhoes, though I have plenty of respect for anyone who does an honest day's work for an honest day's wage. I'm talking about the real life Jayber Crows who show up with pick & shovel and dig a nice square hole six feet deep. I had a sewer problem and decided that I needed to dig down to where I could get access to the line. The hole is on a grade. The shallow end is maybe three feet deep, but at it's deepest point I figure the hole is over eight feet. Breaking up the earth with a mattock and a digging bar, shoveling it out and hauling most of it out in a wheel barrow, gave me time to think.
Aside from thinking about how much easier this would be with a machine, I thought about the old tradition of honoring the dead by digging their grave. Trust me. If I had been digging that hole for someone's final resting place I would remember that friend.
In my world, ladies are better at honoring others in a hands-on manner. They are the ones who bring a meal by the home of a new mom, or a grieving family. It seems that most of the grave-digging type tasks, that men used to do, have been mechanized, bureaucratized, and eliminated. When was the last time you helped a neighbor build a barn, or harvested the crop for an ailing friend? Still, with a bit of thought we can find opportunities.
- A friend mows grass to supplement his income. One of his clients is a senior citizen with limited income, so she only has my friend mow the yard every other week. My friend goes the extra mile by raking the long grass for her.
- I talked to a guy the other day who is having back trouble. He hurt himself helping another.
- Some guys I know are collecting junk, not to pile in their garage, but to sell, so they can help a couple of families.
There is something manly about serving others with sweat on your brow. It's a lesson I learned in the hole.
Lord help me remember it.It's Something to Think About.