Resolution #4:

Over the past several days I have been encouraging us to live more RESOLUTEly in the New Year.

There are things, however, we should not resolve.

• Don't resolve to change the world.
• Don't resolve to do what only others can do.
• Don't resolve to do the impossible.

Many of the specifics behind the intentions expressed in those resolutions are very good.

• Our world certainly needs to be a better place.
• The changes that others need to make are legion, and not of few of these modifications would be for their own good, as well as that of others--me included.
• Curing cancer, solving world hunger, getting all youngsters to treat their parents with respect, or getting all politicians to work for the greater good are certainly changes that would make the world a better place.  They are also well beyond the resources that any of us have at our disposal.

These kind of resolutions are akin to the sentiments of the guy who loved mankind;  it was the people around him he couldn't stand.  As we survey our world let's identify that which is within our capabilities--and I'm not saying we shouldn't stretch ourselves--then resolve to do that.  

Instead of:

• Resolving to change the world, make concrete plans to actually do something to make the little environment where you live a better place.  "I resolve to say 'Please," and 'Thank You,' even when I'm not in a particularly grateful mood."
• Resolving to make others (you fill in the blank with whatever good you choose), resolve to be kind, respectful, loving, grateful, etc. to them.
• Resolving to do the grandiose, and impossible, commit to doing that which is possible, might contribute to the big need, and which will be a good thing even if no one else does their part.

Many resolution are an exercise in hubris.  I shouldn't resolve to do what I can't do, or what others must do if it is to be done.  Above all I must realize James admonition,  "Instead, you ought to say, "If the Lord wills, we will live and also do this or that."" (James 4:15)  

Resolved:

In 2012 I will do what I can do, pray about both that and that which is beyond me, and trust God.

  

 It's STTA. 

You will find some ideas for having more meaningful devotions in the New Year here.